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Thursday, March 16, 2017
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Progress can be hard to recognize, especially if our expectations are unrealistically high. If we expect our negative attitudes or unhealthy behavior to change quickly and completely, we are likely to be disappointed--progress is hard to see when we measure ourselves against idealized standards. Perhaps it would be better to compare our present circumstances only to where we had been in the past.
For example, a Fourth Step inventory led me to realize that I hold grudges and that they hurt me. I try to let go of resentments and I despair when these attitudes persist. Fortunately, Al-Anon has taught me to focus on progress, not perfection. Although sometimes I still hold on to resentments, I know I'm making progress because I don't do it as often as I used to or for as long a time.
Today I am no longer seeking perfection; the only thing that matters is the direction in which I'm moving.
Today's Reminder
As a result of hard work in Al-Anon and a willingness to change, I am moving in a positive direction. I will celebrate my progress today. I know that the process of recovery will continue to help me grow toward a better way of living.
"Keep adding little by little and you will soon have a big hoard." Latin proverb

This is going on my favorites page.  The first to make the page in a long time!!!

1 comments:

  1. I took a screenshot of this so I can read it conveniently whenever I need to! Thank you!

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